Pulling the women you want

              What's the problem with you ? Why do your palms sweat when you see her ? You avoid eye contract ? Can't get the words out your mouth ? And you wonder why you're alone tonight. Life doesn't have to be this way there things you can do !


1. Read, Read,Read

     If you are not a reader then become one. Read the newspaper and books on many different subjects things that you like and most important read about new things. The reason for this it makes it easier to keep a conversation going. You come off interesting and well diverse. This also makes women more comfortable around you cause your conversation is base around getting in them panties. Which causes her to subconsciously want you in her panties if you play your cards right.


2.  Listen
 
    Once you do have her attention learn to be a good listener. Engage her in conversation that allows her to talk about herself. Which in turn allow you to size her up and see if she qualifies to be down with you. Important thing to remember is guide the conversation cause you don't wanna sit around talking about her ex's or gossip real men don't do that shit.

3. Have a sense of style

    Learn if you don't know how to coordinate and put together your outfits. Once you get a good grasp of styling then you can create your own style to attract the kind of women you are into. if you are into pulling corporate type women then you'll wanna step up your casual or business suit attire. If you're into hood chicks then I got no advice you're on your own......step your game up !!

4. Use Dating Sites

     If you're looking to me interesting people the try dating sites . There are so many to choose from interacial, kinky,bdsm, and etc. Be honest on your profiles and take a shit load of pictures but only use the best 5 pictures. Too many pictures of yourself as a guy is weird and it makes you look like you are to into yourself. Show a little humor nothing corny. Mention a little something about your likes and hobbies. Never post negative rants it's a turn off. login often to keep your profile at the top of your area search. Contact many women on these sites and don't become focus on just one.

Standards

              Do you have standards? High or Low standards? Why should you have standard ?



            When you are looking to purchase a car how do you know which car to purchase.
First you figure out what kind of car you want and the blue book value of the car. If you are really diligent you would look into the brand and the model reviews. if you find out that the car you was into had very low scores in categories like: safety, mileage, reliability, and cost of ownership. What would you do ? Would you still purchase this car?

           The answer all depends on what kind of standards you have accepted in life. A low standards person would still buy the car cause it looked cool and then he or she is mad about the poor performing car once the new feeling goes away.


           A person with high standards will research many different brand and models of cars they are interested in that fits their budget.   They would go test drive several cars that rank well in safety, mileage, reliability and cost of ownership.



            Now let's look at standards on the dating scene. Say you are a guy out on the town with your friends. Y'all walking into a bar and start a tab and grab a table. You're near the pool tables and restrooms ( p.s. is a good spot to be to see everybody). Your waitress is a smoking hot college student earning money for college. The both of you catch eyes several times and smile  she even gives you and free beer. You also notice another lady checking you out she is older than you (which there's nothing wrong with older women). She whisper in your hear that she thinks you are sexy. But you notice a wedding ring on her finger. She ask for your number and says that the both you should get together and have some real fun.


       If his standards is high enough which one do you think he would choose. Would you waste your energy getting involve with someone else's wife or a beautiful waitress working her why through college and possible go on to do well in life ?