Guarding your light(Getting your Shine On)

                                               When figuring out what personality traits we want to build on we must be brutality honesty about who we feel we are and how we
portray ourselves when are around others. Do we stand tall and firm or slump over and fidget nervous waiting on others to accept who we are. You know the
type you seen them or its you that soon as someone says they like us or something about we fixiate on it. Always looking to get that postivie affirmation from
someone it almost be that person prime motiviation in life. Or you are that person who do anything for others and they do nothing for you. Figuring if you do
any and everything others might want you to do that they have no other choice but to like you. Sorry but those people will never like you nor will they ever
respect you as a person. Or you maybe the person the bitches and moan about how nobody and nothing around is good enough for them (HATERS) really
deep down they feel like and even know that they ain't shit and don't have nothing to offer. So no matter what you do or say they won't agreed or have any
positive to say about the subject or issue at hand. Some of those haters grew up with someone constantly helping and doing for them that they feel helpless
there own and when that support isn't there they feel helpless and lost so they act out like the babies they are. Independent people irritates them because
they really envy you and wish for indepedence but feel like its out of there reach. And then some are just plan old nothing ass motherfuckers too lazy too
scratch their own ass. Stay away from them I will say it again STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM THEM if you truely love yourself and valve your time.
                                            Some personality traits will be easier to change than others that are more deeply embedded in your soul. Don't worry you just
work harder at but its well worth the effort trust me. If you don't like what you see in the mirror you can always alter you appearence . You can lose weight
or gain weight. You can grow or cut hair. You can whitening your smile or straighten your teeth. You can even change the color of your eyes. You can
lighten or darken your skin. Get tattoos or piercing. Or just simple change your waredrobe that can work wonders for your attitude and image.  Your
apperance can attract or repel people around. So when putting your outter image together you must be very calculating. Thats why its best to get you
clothing game together after you have a solid idea of what the new your will be like inside then outside. Remember a Boss Player should make a statement
with his clothes and his mind. Don't be afraid of color too many people stick with dark clothes thats the easy way out. Get a good platonic girlfriend to go
shopping with you but if she doesn't wear banging ass outfits then don't ask her. One of the best ways is meet a women that you are attractive too but don't
try to mack her you're not ready yet. But befriend her and ask for her help women love dressing a man. Ask her question about why she selected certain
articles of clothing you'll be surprise at how much you learn from her. Get outfits for different occassions going out, laid back casual, and even around the
house clothes. You'll wanna look good even if someone comes over late night for that folks shit you know. Learn about colognes from women this is valuable
infomation. Most guys fall apart on the grooming and apperance of a Boss Player. Last but not forget the shoes you gotta step your shoes game up bust it
kick and a nice outfit don't mix. You'll be laugh of the scene immediately trust I witness this first happening to friends of mines that wouldn't listen. It's like
a Lexus sitting on hupcaps you don't wanna drive it because of the hubcap. This is the world we live in I didn't create it but I learn to make the best out of the
cards I was dealt. So be aware of your shoes game this goes for women as well as men. You goal as far as appearence goes is to turn heads bottom line
from the outfit scheme to the smell. Even if you not looking to hook up with anyone you want them to be looking to hook up with you.  Everyone loves a winner
and a winner can have anything he wants even if he don't want it. Winners have that glow and others see it and want it think if they hang around some will
rub of on to them. But they can't have it cause it yours all yours and yours only to do with it as you please. Never give your glow away meaning allow someone
to steal that spark you got going on so stay true to you and only you. When you don't stay under your own light then your light will begin to go out.