Moving too fast....slow down

   Are you a young couple thinking about moving in together ? Or better yet are you thinking about having children and getting married soon ? Then read on my friends. First think back a few years ago or just back to when you was single. Did you have different goals when you were single or just younger ? What happen to them ? Did they change after you was in a relationship ? If the answer is yes then why ? Did you tell yourself that you would get married at a later age ? And that you would have children when you were more stable financially ?
   So now you in a relationship and in a state of utopia things couldn't be better you say ? Word to the wise pump your brakes and pump them hard. You don't have to break up or anything like that. I would strongly suggest that you continue or start pursuing or goals with a passion before all the bills pile up and before you enjoyed those adventures with your friends like a trip to Vegas or Brazil or some shit like that.
    When you don't a chance to make waves while you solo then once you do commit yourself to relationship long term or have kids. Your chances of accomplishing those goals or adventures become bleek. And you will start to regret nothing taking charge of your life. Honestly sometimes getting in a commit relationship quick or just moving too fast is a cop out. Some folks are scared to take on life by themselves and they never find out what they are truely made of and their character suffer. Some are really needy and codependent there for become extra weight in a relationship. Long story short  live a full life before, during and even after a serious commited relationship.