getting your mind right

         
           Have you ever obessed about things until you got them ? If yes then thats good. What you may have not realized is that while you were obessing you
were also making plans and taking action to make sure you got what you wanted. Well this is what high power players do 24hours a day but they just conceal
their thoughts until the time is right and to the right people. Your mind no matter what age or races you are should constantly be planning on advancing your
life. If you cannot conceal your thoughts you risk your victories in life cause in a competitive society it's normally cut throat or should I say dog eat dog.
When playing a game of chess do you tell you opponent what you next move is ? NO well don't in the game of life it's not wise to so don't do it. Especially if
your mind is not strong enough fight off the nah sayers or in other words the haters in your life. This people couldn't accomplish something of importance in
their life so they believe in themselves. So they lost fate and push their loser mentality on to whoever is stupid enough to share ideas with them. You got
be a better judge of character. See what they are doing or not doing with their on life. Listen to the way they talk in general conversation is it positive
or negative ? Remember always listen more than you talk and you'll learn more than you can imagine. Don't forget to ask questions to the right people as well.
             Learn how to socialize and rub elbows with quality people that you feel are worthy of your time with out be a ass kisser. First off no one likes
and ass kisser neither do you. Its cool for a second or 2 then they become a bore and a irritating. Get use to dealing with them because once you stepped
your game up. Those people will become a frequent in your life and you must learn to deal with them on a case by case basis. Find out what events are
going on in your area and if you have a few dollars go to some events not so close around you to get a taste of whats out there and the many different types
of people out there. Also it give you a chance to develop a new style and character traits you are not yet ready to expose to people who are close to you.
Trust me faking til you make it is not a bad thing. You are basically going through a trial and error phase. The caterpillar is on the ground until it goes
into a cacoon then its free to go anywhere it dam well please and so will you but it will take some work (trial and error stage) to get where you dream of
being all along. If it was easy to be what you wanna be then why do we go through years of college then intern (work with no or little pay) until final
beconsider skilled enough to be called a professional. The only difference is now you are being paid for some of the same work you were already doing.
Books like mine I call'em college courses in the game of life which is the only true game there is. Trial and error stage is like a intern in the game.
Total enlightenment, confident, courage, skilled, and a losing is not an option attitude is a true BOSS PLAYER and a professional in the game of life !